Welcome to The Lovers Society

Every week our society members feel more connected, authentic and hopeful - you can too.

What is The Lovers Society 

The Lovers Society is a new exclusive, expert-led community designed for committed couples ready to break free from cycles of disconnection and create a relationship that feels passionate, fulfilling, and deeply connected. Whether you’re struggling with intimacy, feel more like roommates than lovers, or simply want to nurture your bond, this space is for you.

Created by Marissa Nelson an award-winning Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, The Lovers Society is your go-to destination for relationship renewal, emotional closeness, and intimate growth.

What You Can Expect:

🌱 Growth as Individuals & as a Couple – You’ll feel supported not only in your relationship but in your personal evolution—because when you both grow, your love flourishes.

💡 A Toolkit for Lasting Connection – You’ll have a library of expert-backed strategies, techniques, and insights that make maintaining emotional and physical intimacy feel easy and sustainable.

🔥 Passion That Feels Effortless – Intimacy will no longer feel like something you “should” do—it will be something you crave and look forward to, naturally woven into your everyday life.

🎉 A Safe Introspective Place Where Your Relationship Can Feel FUN Again – Laughter, adventure, and excitement won’t just be memories from the past—they’ll be part of your everyday connection, reigniting the joy of being together.

Imagine Knowing Your Relationship is Getting Stronger Every Week:

🔥 Proven Structured Framework – Our community has monthly themes, weekly topics and tailored support so you and your partner actively develop better communication skills to grow closer every week.

💬 Live Q&As & Weekly Date Night Office Hours – Learn real-world relationship skills, ask pressing questions, and get direct guidance from Marissa Nelson. Stay tuned for expert guests as well on various relationship and health topics!

💛 Expert Guidance & Coaching – Access professional insights on communication, intimacy, and emotional connection.

🎉 Virtual Date Nights & Interactive Experiences – Cultivate deeper intimacy with fun, meaningful activities that help you rediscover each other.

🤝 A Supportive, Private Community – Connect with other couples who are also committed to growth and intimacy.

📖 Exclusive On-Demand Resources  – Get immediate access to free on-demand courses as well as our private proprietary therapist-trained AI chatbot (so good it was offered a speaking engagement) to get immediate answers any of those late night questions that keep you up in the night.  

🛍️ Discounted Playtime Products - Get up to 20% off elite intimacy and wellness brand products such such as Foria, Dame Maude and more!

🏷️ Discounted Access to Featured Couples Retreats and the Roommates to Lovers Signature Series!

Is it right for you?

We designed this community for couples who want high value resources to nurture their relationship day-in day-out. This is for couples who understand that they can improve their relationship with an just 90 minutes a week or less.

You’re in the right place if:

✅ You want to feel like lovers more than roommates and want to grow closer.
✅ You’re committed to deepening emotional and physical intimacy.
✅ You want expert-backed tools to navigate relationship challenges with ease.
✅ You desire a safe, supportive, non-judgmental space to learn, grow, and thrive as a couple.

This community may not be suitable if:

  • You’re not willing to take an honest look at your habits and behaviors.
  • You’re seeking a quick fix without putting in the effort to create change.
  • You would rather focus on new positions and toys rather strengthening your connection.

If you’re ready to stay free from disconnection and take action, this community is your next step.


Our Host

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Marissa Nelson is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT), AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) and Sexuality Educator (CSE), TEDx Speaker, Entrepreneur and Relationship Expert. 

An internationally recognized expert, she is the creator of IntimacyMoons Couples Retreats, rated by Women’s Health, Fodor’s Travel, and Travel Curator Magazines as one of the top luxury couples retreats worldwide. She has also been featured in over 150 national and international media publications including the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal. She consolidated her expertise into the popular TEDx talk “We all experience sexual rejection - and it’s not about sex”. 

In 2023, Marissa was selected as one of INNOVATE Washington’s Top 100 innovators. In 2024, Marissa is the 2024 recipient of the Award for Integrative Approaches to Sex Therapy from the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She was also award Businesswoman of the Year by G.I.R.L. Inc.

Marissa is also the Washington DC facilitator of the University of Pennsylvania Wharton Women’s Circle. 

Marissa is a graduate of the University of Pennsylvania with a Masters in Education Entrepreneurship, and also possesses a Masters in Marriage & Family Therapy from Drexel University. Marissa also pursued post-graduate studies, receiving a Certificate in Sexual Health & Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.